培養社交中體面的風度 acquire a pleasing social gloss ie attractive manners etc
風度 demeanour; bearing 風度大方 have an easy manner; 有風度 have poise; behave with grace and ease; 悠然自得的風度 free and easy carriage; 軍人風度 military [soldierly] bearing; 紳士般的風度 gentleman- like manner; 騎士風度 chevalier manner; 她風度迷人。 there is a charm about her manner